Anxiety- general, approach, social

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ANXIETY

A medically defined illness that so many people are overly medicated for. The majority of us aren’t medicated but we still have a great deal of anxiety in many situations. For me it was social anxiety. I could not go to an event without feeling sick, I could never talk to anyone I wanted to, and I never had the chance to ask questions in college class because of it. Anxiety is an awful thing but so easy to overcome when we have the passion to work at it.

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For now I want to give you one piece of beginner advice to work through this anxiety. how to talk to girls and how to get a girlfriend

I’ll do this through an example of my own life. how to talk to girls and how to get a girlfriend

I wanted to go to a coffee shop this evening and just hang out for once. It’s known to be a little busier than other coffee shops, more like a European cafe if you will so that started my anxiety. On top of that I hadn’t had my cup of coffee yet so I wasnt feeling very energetic, outgoing, or social. To make matters worse I couldn’t find parking for days and almost gave up. I decided this anxiety thing isn’t gonna go away and I just need to accept it. I need to accept this feeling and let it flow right through me. I need to feel the anxiety while saying, “fuck it! Who cares”. So I finally get up the courage to walk in and grab a coffee. I awkwardly talk to the cashier and order a coffee as I proceed to find a seat. After I got in my seat, my little safe spot I felt sooooo much better.

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I pushed through my anxiety in order to push through my comfort zone and at the end of the day my anxiety levels will decrease due to todays stimulation

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